My #1 Trick for Overcoming Awkward Family Poses
Are you struggling with overcoming awkward family poses during photoshoots? That stiffness when someone points a camera at your family can be frustrating – those forced smiles, the “what do I do with my hands” moments, and children suddenly forgetting how to act natural. As a family filmmaker and photographer dedicated to capturing authentic moments, I’ve discovered one simple yet powerful trick that transforms every session.
The Secret to Overcoming Awkward Family Poses
My number one trick for overcoming awkward family poses is this: plan activities that matter to your family instead of poses.
When families book with me, we don’t focus on creating picture-perfect poses. Instead, we plan activities that naturally bring out your family’s genuine connections. This approach works because:
- Activities shift everyone’s focus from “being photographed” to simply being together
- Families relax into their natural dynamics when engaged in something they enjoy
- The most beautiful moments happen in the in-betweens, not in the posed shots
How This Works in Practice
During our pre-session consultation, I’ll ask questions that help me understand what makes your family tick. What moments would you press pause on if you could? (internal link to your client questionnaire page)
Maybe it’s:
- Making pancakes together on Sunday mornings
- Playing board games that bring out everyone’s competitive spirit
- Exploring nearby nature trails
- Simply reading stories in your beautifully intentional home space
I gently guide families toward areas with beautiful light or meaningful backgrounds, but the magic happens when you forget I’m even there.
The Results Speak for Themselves
When families engage in activities they love, something beautiful happens. Parents naturally connect with their children. Authentic smiles and laughter emerge. Those tender glances and touches that define your relationship appear without prompting.
The resulting images and films don’t just show what your family looks like – they capture how being together feels.
Why Documentary Family Photography Matters
Years from now, your children won’t want to see perfectly posed photos where everyone said “cheese.” They’ll want to see the real connection between their parents, the authentic joy in everyday moments, and the love that surrounded them.
As a parent myself, I know how quickly these years pass. The pancake-making mornings and backyard adventures are fleeting. My documentary approach ensures these precious moments become tangible memories your family can revisit forever.
Ready to create a family film or photo session that captures your family’s authentic story? Let’s chat about how we can document your family’s beautiful, real moments together.
Want more tips on preparing for your family session? Check out 5 Things To Do At Your Family Film Session
